Kwincwadi ethi “Iphupha Lezindlu Ezibomvu”, uMama uJia watshintsha isigqubuthelo sefestile sikaDaiyu, waza wayithiya leyo wayeyicelile, eyichaza ngokuthi “wenza intente, uncamathisela iidrowa zefestile, uze uyijonge umgama, ibukeka njengomsi”, yiyo loo nto igama layo lisithi “Soft Smoke Luo”.

Xa kuthelekiswa nokusonta okurhabaxa nokuqinileyo okwenziwe ngezinto zanamhlanje zeekhemikhali, le “silika” ithambile ngokwenene, ityebile kwaye ilula, igudileyo kwaye ithambile njengolusu lomfazi. Yile nto ngoku esiyibiza ngokuba “isilika”.

Iingenelo zesilika, umfazi kufuneka azame ubuncinane kube kanye ebomini bakhe azilolize. Ngoba? Kuba ayinalo elinye ilaphu elinokutshintshwa, kuphela xa usebenzisa isilika, unokuziva ubuhle obungobabafazi kuphela.

Ithambile kwaye kulula ukuyishwabanisa, intle kwaye kulula ukuyinxiba, kwaye ukuthamba kwayo kunye nokuqonda kwayo kobufazi zenza ubuhle kunye nokuvisisana okumangalisayo.

Kuphelaiipajama zesilikaingaba nombala othambileyo njengobusi.

Ingasathethwa ke ngokuchukumisa okuthambileyo okufana nelifu elityibilikayo xa lichukunyiswa, kunye nokuphola okuncinci okuphuma eluswini ngokungathi luyakwazi ukuphefumla.

Yiyo loo nto kuthiwa ukuchukumisa ulusu nesilika yeyona nto ivuyisayo ehlabathini.

Kwaye into entle kakhulu, isizathu sokuba abantu abaninzi basathandabuza ukuyizama ukuza kuthi ga ngoku asinto ingaphezulu kwexabiso eliphezulu kunye nobunzima bokuyilungiselela isilika.

Ukususela ekuphuhlisweni kwale mihla, akusekho xesha le-"Dream of Red Mansions". Iimpahla ezahlukeneyo ezifunyenwe kwiisilikanjengoko izinto eziluhlaza zigcwele amaxabiso aphezulu naphantsi, kwaye ubunzima bokuzinyamekela buyahluka.

Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuzama isilika kube kanye, ungayifumana ekufaneleyo.